I just wish the gender difference would stay since we had a gender difference in the first place yknow?
I understand the frustration of having things changed from under you. I get it.
But it was a
mistake to have different-coloured genders in the first place. A mistake that I failed to catch before they were originally released. That's my fault for not checking what was being put out before it happened.
Gender differences
never* affect colours. They may affect where those colours appear (eg. Butterfree's wings have a different pattern) but they don't add or remove or change colours entirely.
* Nidoran, Jellicent and other Pokémon with more extreme dimorphism are of course exceptions to this. I'm referring to Pokémon with only minor gender differences.
Again, I apologise for the original mistake. It should not have happened.